Have you been wondering on how you can build self confidence from the inside? Self confidence in this day and age is difficult to achieve.
We are bombarded by the society that claims that you need to have a perfect figure, full butt or big lips etc.
There are many girls and women who scroll through social media everyday in depression after seeing celebs.
If you ever had that thought, this article is for you!
Here, I will be telling you how you need to gain self confidence and find your true worth in life, which will definitely give you the confidence to say, I am the prettiest thing in the world no matter what!
Here are 3 super important ways to build self confidence.
Treat yourself well
The way you treat yourself always sets the tone on how other people treat you. Period.
You know the saying? Like people attract like people.
The same way, to get good vibes from others, you need to be sending good vibes and need to feel good about yourself from within. At first, it will be really hard, because every single day, we are constantly fighting the battle against negativity. But we advice you to keep repeating positive affirmations and constantly making an effort to embrace yourself and who you are.
Always know yourself, who you are and what you stand for!
A road trip is pointless if you don’t know the end goal or the purpose. The same goes with you, how can you be yourself if you don’t know what defines you. Know what makes you happy? What are your hobbies? By discovering yourself, you are showing people that your opinion matters and you have different point of view on certain matters. You can get to more about yourself, by spending some alone time with yourself, Go outside and meditate, read books, listen to different music, or just write a journal.
Comparing is something that most of us do, it’s us just being human. But when you are in the process of building your self-confidence, you need to stop comparing yourself to everyone around you. We need to eliminate the “I cannot be as pretty as her”, or “I can never be as smart as her” mentality.
Remember you cannot compare your first page to someone else’s 30th page, right! Forget that.. You cannot compare your first page with someone else’s first page. We are all unique, just like plants, all of them are green but each of them is different and grows differently and grows at different place. That’s why to be more self-confident, know you are unique and stay in your own lane!
Gaining confidence is a huge thing, and it also takes time and does not happen overnight. If you have to fake a little till you make it, just go for it! Be positive, don’t compare or look at others with envy and always know that your voice matters!